
Republican or Democrat? Liberal or Conservative?* Right or Left? Jefferson or Hamilton? Capitalism or Socialism? Adam Smith or Karl Marx? Competition or cooperation? Freedom or Equality? Liberty or Justice? Young or old? Past or future? Male or Female? Faith or Reason? Science or Religion? Determinism or Free-Will? Nature or Nurture? Destiny or Chance? Thinking or feeling? Head or Heart? Which side of each of these pairs are you?
No matter which side of any of these pairs you favor – as the true side, the right side, the moral side – you are wrong to favor one to the exclusion of the other. For example. Many if not most liberals believe that most or all conservatives are either evil or stupid, or both. Guess what: conservatives believe the same about liberals. Is it possible for one half of the nation to be always right while the other half is always wrong? Hardly likely. Liberals and conservatives alike have their geniuses and their fools. Another example. A man is a man, for sure. But if he denies his feminine side, he leads a fractured life. C.G. Jung called the denied side of us all the Shadow side. He wanted us not to deny our Shadow side, but to integrate it into our lives. If the Shadow side is ignored or tamped down, it will sure as hell create havoc in our lives. Another example: Men live their lives according to either Faith or Reason, and it makes a huge difference which side they choose. One is not always a better guide than the other, but most people are quite certain that it is.